Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Haters Gonna Hate!!

Okay so if you don’t know much about me I am a Psych major and cyber interactions amongst people intrigue me. Being so I feel like discussing a certain trend I have seen on YouTube lately. First let me start off with saying I do not consider myself a Youtube Guru just yet – (have a little ways more to go ☺ ) , I do consider myself an avid follower of a few Youtube Gurus. Following YouTube Gurus has definitely been a new hobby of mine, one of best friends just happens to be a YouTube Guru – PinkHoneyBeee of course one could say that makes me a bit biased but I would say this is to my advantage. (sort of like a spy ;) )

Lately there have been many Gurus I follow on every social network available (Seriously I know LOL ~) but I have noticed many of them very upset and venting about a Cyber Bully (a Hater) and what horrible things they may have said. I have also noticed many pouring their hearts out in a video to these cyber-bullies. I know you are probably wondering why would you say these videos were in response to the haters? Well because this is exactly what they are doing…

Consider this

**Warning** If you are a hater reading this scenario will not work for you..

**Consider yourself Warned* *

You comment on a video/status/tweet/blog post etc..: Love your Hair, What do you use to make it so straight?

How do you feel when the person comments back with joy and an answer?
Most of you should be shaking your head up and down right now, It’s a nice feeling to be acknowledged.. (secretly reading your mind right now JK)

Now the same thing holds true for a person who is generally miserable and loves hating/harassing people online. (believe it or not it does they are human just like we are just a uglier inside)

So a hater comments on a video/status/tweet/blog post etc.. You are so Fugly!!! Seriously why do you even bother waking up in the morning?

Now when commenting back or creating a video response because of this, how much acknowledgement do you think they are receiving? You should be starting to get what I am getting to with this by now.

YouTube Gurus try this & lets see what happens go blind for a few weeks to the hate completely block it out. Sooner or later they will get frustrated by it and just let it go. The satisfaction is no longer offered and they soon will be on to the next person they can get a rise out of. Now of course an ultimate goal would be for them to stop but if enough people do this to haters they will grow tired of this and maybe give up.

Cyber-bullying is an increasing trend in society. If you are unaware Cyber-Bullying is defined as "when the Internet, cell phones or other devices are used to send or post text or images intended to hurt or embarrass another person.” Cyber-bullying takes many forms and can be as simple as continuing to send a e-mail to someone who has said they want no further contact with the sender, but it may also include threats, sexual remarks, pejorative labels (i.e., hate speech), ganging up on victims by making them the subject of ridicule in forums, and posting false statements as fact aimed at humiliation. So to all people out there who have ever been cyber-harassed I say this do not let this get you down you are a beautiful person willing to share your self with others and for that you have guts!

Know that there will be people who hate and this will probably never fade but keep a smile on and just kill there hate with kindness or just simply ignore it either or you will feel better in doing so and they will feel like crap ☺ !! So keep doing what you are doing guys! And don’t let anyone get in your way!

Monday, May 23, 2011

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The Nina Dress in Peach by Motel | Karmaloop.com - Global Concrete Culture

I am in love with this dress!! Love the color and the straps on the arms its just so different! :) Contemplating ordering this soon...

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

A Fresh start

I am new to blogging and would like to introduce myself. My name is Cristina and I have recently graduated from college with a Bachelors in Psychology.

I am currently studying for the GRE and trying to get into a masters program related to psychology but truthfully do not know what I want to do with my life. As I get older this has become more and more of an issue!! I am sure I am not the only one in the world struggling with this problem so feel free to make suggestions if you'd like.

I have plenty of likes but not too many Loves in life! I mean I have loves but they are expensive loves and would require a good paying job to fully enjoy LOL!!

So for now I am aimlessly doing what I think I should do and that is applying for a masters program and we will see where it goes from there.

The purpose of this blog is to purely express my thoughts and feelings on various topics:
Dogs (I have 2 and they are amazing!!)
Reviews of things tried and liked/disliked..

Thanks for reading! More post coming soon ♥